http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/ A Gathering Place for the Members of the Soul Food Cafe Sun, 20 Jul 2008 19:44:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1558 Heather Blakey Sun, 08 Apr 2007 21:53:14 +0000 http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1558 I reiterate. Another strategy is to take her to the mediation table and strike a deal with her. It has helped me many times. I reiterate. Another strategy is to take her to the mediation table and strike a deal with her. It has helped me many times.

]]> http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1530 jan2 Sun, 08 Apr 2007 03:08:26 +0000 http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1530 Well here we have me a problem - I have things to iron, curtains that need changing, a spare room to transform, hundreds of books to give to the library or charity shop, and CD's and clothes and on and on. Absolutely terrified to set off pain if it's subsided so I'm having to leave those things. And do you know - the sun still rises and sets!! Well here we have me a problem - I have things to iron, curtains that need changing, a spare room to transform, hundreds of books to give to the library or charity shop, and CD’s and clothes and on and on. Absolutely terrified to set off pain if it’s subsided so I’m having to leave those things. And do you know - the sun still rises and sets!!

]]> http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1521 shewolfy728 Sat, 07 Apr 2007 22:22:52 +0000 http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1521 Ah- you see, the difference is that I let her play outer critic, too. It was dealing with the 16 year old boy that wore her out before she wore me out. If it had been my daughter, the story would have been quite different- her critic and mine spur each other to new heights. Ah- you see, the difference is that I let her play outer critic, too. It was dealing with the 16 year old boy that wore her out before she wore me out. If it had been my daughter, the story would have been quite different- her critic and mine spur each other to new heights.

]]> http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1518 soulsister Sat, 07 Apr 2007 20:22:02 +0000 http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1518 Yes, yes I know this one sooo well!! She tells me that I absolutely must tidy up/ declutter/clean windows, etc etc . The only problem with wearing her down is that I am so goddamed exhausted afterwards that I need to sleep her off...still no writing done!! Ah well someday I shall discover the key.... Yes, yes I know this one sooo well!! She tells me that I absolutely must tidy up/ declutter/clean windows, etc etc . The only problem with wearing her down is that I am so goddamed exhausted afterwards that I need to sleep her off…still no writing done!! Ah well someday I shall discover the key….

]]> http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1511 quinncreative Sat, 07 Apr 2007 17:47:51 +0000 http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1511 Inner Critic is always so strong and sure. Wearing her down was a great idea! Inner Critic is always so strong and sure. Wearing her down was a great idea!

]]> http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1489 lorigloyd Fri, 06 Apr 2007 23:09:40 +0000 http://tavernadimuse.wordpress.com/2007/04/06/outsmarting-the-critic/#comment-1489 Attagirl! You handled Her magnificently! Attagirl! You handled Her magnificently!

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